Venus compatibility / Two Venus in Aquariuss
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The Secret Society
Two members, no written rules, meetings held at odd hours about things nobody else would understand.
The astrology A conjunction: the same sign, so the same Air element and the same Fixed mode. Venus is neither at home nor in exile in Aquarius, where love is friendly, independent and unconventional. Aquarius is traditionally ruled by Saturn and, in modern astrology, co-ruled by Uranus: loyal to its own principles, and allergic to anyone else’s rules.
Venus sign compatibility
Two Venus in Aquariuss
Friends first, co-conspirators always. Two free spirits who accept each other completely and give each other room, and who need to remember to talk about feelings too.
- independent
- original
- accepting
- friendly
- unconventional
- emotionally cool
- Comes easy
- Friendship, freedom, total acceptance and an endless supply of strange conversations.
- Takes work
- Two people who can go a very long time without talking about feelings.
- It lasts when
- You make a habit of saying how you actually feel, even when it’s awkward.
- Elements
- Both Air: you connect through ideas, conversation and shared curiosity. Talking is how you love.
- Modes
- Both Fixed: loyal once committed and very set in your own opinions. Two people who are both sure they’re right about the future of cities.
- The angle between them
- Conjunction: the same sign, so you recognise yourself in the other. Deep acceptance, and the same blind spots, doubled.
- Venus in each sign
- Neutral in Aquarius, where Venus loves a friend first and needs room to be itself.
Two Venus in Aquariuss together
Two Venus in Aquarius people often start as friends. You meet in a group chat, at a protest, in a niche hobby forum, at the kind of party where half the guests are in costume and the other half are arguing about technology. You talk for hours about everything except your feelings, and then, one day, you realise you’re in love.
Venus in Aquarius wants to be loved for the parts that don’t fit. With another Aquarius, those parts are exactly the point.
What you get from each other is rare: complete acceptance. Neither of you wants to change the other. You both like your independence and are happy to give it. You can go to separate parties, keep your own friends and hobbies, travel alone, and still be completely committed. Your relationship may look unusual from the outside. You’re fine with that.
The difficulty is emotional closeness. You both tend to intellectualise feelings. You can talk about love, relationships and attachment theory for hours without once saying how you feel about each other right now. Two people who value space can drift, without meaning to, into living like very fond flatmates.
What draws you together
The pull is originality. You meet someone who thinks for themselves, has strange passions and doesn’t seem to care about fitting in. Their mind fascinates you, and you find it easy to talk to them about anything.
There’s also relief in the attraction. You’ve met someone who doesn’t cling, doesn’t get jealous and doesn’t try to fit you into a box. It feels, for once, like being with a person who wants you to be exactly yourself.
How you love each other
You both love the same way: through friendship, loyalty and acceptance. You defend each other’s oddest choices, support each other’s causes, and give each other freedom without being asked. Your partner is your best friend and your co-conspirator. The two of you can spend a whole Sunday on a shared obsession, a documentary rabbit hole, a board game you invented, a plan to start a community garden, and call it the best date you’ve had all year.
The catch is that neither of you is naturally good at emotional intimacy. You both show love through ideas and shared projects, and both can seem detached when you’re actually overwhelmed. If one of you starts to feel lonely inside the relationship, it may take months to say so, because you both assume the other needs space. Checking in, directly and regularly, keeps the connection alive.
Intimacy
Open-minded, experimental and often surprisingly playful. Two Venus in Aquarius people are usually willing to try things and talk about them honestly. Sex can be fun, curious and without much drama. The risk is that it stays in your heads. Both of you can be a bit detached, and without some emotional warmth, the physical side can feel more like an interesting experiment than a real closeness. Let yourselves be tender. It’s allowed, even for Aquarius.
When you clash
You rarely fight loudly. When you disagree, you both get cool, rational and very certain. You can debate for hours and neither of you will move an inch, since you’re both Fixed signs with strong opinions. The argument becomes an intellectual contest rather than a conversation about feelings.
The bigger problem is drift. Two people who both need space can let the distance grow until the relationship feels more like a friendship than a romance. Nobody did anything wrong. You just stopped reaching for each other. Noticing that early, and saying so, is the most important thing you can do.
Taste, money and pleasure
Venus rules money and taste, and you share an unusual one. You both spend on ideas, causes, technology and experiences, and neither of you cares much for status symbols. Your home might be full of books, gadgets and odd art, with a thrifted sofa and very expensive speakers. You may have unconventional arrangements about money, too, like separate accounts or giving a set share to causes. As long as you agree on the principles, it works.
Where you click
- Friendship at the centre
- Total acceptance
- Freedom and independence
- Endless strange conversations
- Shared causes and ideals
Where you clash
- Nobody talking about feelings
- Drifting into flatmates
- Two stubborn opinions
- Detachment read as not caring
- Both assuming the other needs space
How to make it work
- Once a week, say one true thing about how you feel. Out loud.
- Don’t assume the other wants space. Ask.
- Keep a regular ritual that’s romantic, not just friendly.
- When you debate, stop and ask how the other person is feeling about the argument.
- Touch each other more than feels natural.
If you’re both Venus in Aquarius
You’re both Venus in Aquarius, so you understand each other’s need for freedom and originality completely. Just remember to talk about feelings too, even when it feels clumsy. Say “I miss you” when you do. Ask how they’re really doing. Try. Then kiss them in the kitchen for no reason and go back to arguing about the future of cities.
Questions
Are two Venus in Aquarius people compatible?
Often very. They share a love of friendship, freedom and originality, and accept each other completely. The main risk is emotional distance, since both can avoid talking about feelings.
What is a relationship between two Venus in Aquarius people like?
Friendly, independent and unconventional. They give each other plenty of space and support each other’s interests. It can look unusual from the outside, but that suits them fine.
What do two Venus in Aquarius people struggle with?
Emotional intimacy. Both tend to intellectualise feelings and value independence, so they can drift into something more like friendship than romance.
Can two Venus in Aquarius people have an unconventional relationship?
Many do, and it often works well for them, as long as both agree on the terms and keep talking honestly. What matters is that the arrangement suits both people, not what anyone else expects.
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